A crucial piece of the pie!
Foreplay is much more crucial than it is often credited to be. I think whoever said that finishing strong in having intimacy has surely never really had a conversation with a real woman about the importance of foreplay. What matters the most is that foreplay is actually taken as a very underrated thing while I think it is one of the things that act as a prelude.
And believe me, if I’d seriously talk about this thing, most men and women would not be able to see each other in the eye. But then, not forgetting to say that as you ready yourself to a slow and leisurely beautiful love-making, you should surely not ready for things to turn into an Emeril Lagasse show: Things were cooking, and then … bam! It’s over. Thus, to be precise at this hour, men surely have the tendency to get an erection only thinking about sex while women do take time to make up their mind and body for the same.
Many women need to be kissed, hugged, and caressed to create lubrication in their genitals, which is important for comfortable intercourse. And all this serves as a part of foreplay, and not just this, there are few more crucial things that you should know about this activity in order to realize its importance.
1. Sensuality is its biggest success key!
Sensuality is the key. Holding hands; nearness of heads on shoulders; caressing hair, arms, back and so on as it builds up sexual tension and arousal.
2. Keep doing it during sex and not just before it
As a general key to a great foreplay, it’s seduction, conversation, touching the body… it’s all that, and that should go on throughout lovemaking.
3. Don’t ignore other parts of the body
All too frequently, people tend to go right for the erogenous zones when they’re in bed. That’s nice, and all, but there are other parts of the body that shouldn’t be overlooked during sex and touching them helps build up excitement.
4. Treat it as an appetizer and order just one
Too often, couples forgo foreplay altogether and speed ahead to intercourse. And in doing so, they may be setting themselves up for failure. When it comes to eating, lots of people like to skip the appetizer. That’s fine for food, but skipping foreplay is rarely a good idea for sex. The right foreplay can send you from 0 to 1,000 on the horniness scale.
5. Talk about your expectations
Communication is the key to good foreplay. Don’t sit there and try to be polite in the moment. Have a sexy conversation with your partner about what you like… when you’re not under the stress of excitement or worry about criticism or anything like that.
6. Foreplay = Sexual satisfaction. Well, Almost!
It’s a fact: Women typically need foreplay to have good sex. That’s a really good reason not to cut corners with it. Foreplay is really important for most women because we tend to take a longer time to get into the mood.