“Love is always patient and kind. It is never jealous. Love is never boastful or conceited. It is never rude or selfish.” A Walk to Remember
You have been waiting for that one person to change your life, but got hurt in the process of loving and making compromises right! Your first relationship was a nightmare, which made you cold-hearted and scared of falling in love again?
Okay, first of all, you are not scared of falling in love, you are scared of getting hurt again. If this is the case with you, you really need to understand that there are hundreds of heartbreaks every day, but nobody can live without love. Here I mean love in any form be it a friend’s love, family or else. If you are holding back to fall in love again, here are the reasons why you need to stop hurting yourself.
Time Heals Everything
No matter how deeply you loved that person or how strong the pain is, always remember time and love is stronger than anything in the world. I am not saying that it will take a week’s time to move on, but you have to get rid of that pain as soon as possible. Just breathe and let it pass. Soon you will see someone making efforts to see you smile and being there unconditionally now it’s up to you how you deal with it.
This I guess the biggest reason why people fear falling in love again. You really need to stop comparing every other person with your ex as it will not only make your life miserable, but you will not able to find the right person who deserves your love. Just because your first relationship didn’t work out that does not mean everybody is going to ditch you or leave you alone.
Learn to Forgive!
Not because you need to be the bigger person, but to get over it! Forgive that person for all those sleepless nights, for all the pain, and for all the fights because he or she, will keep making your life worse until you forgive and forget. Every broken relationship makes you learn something, which will definitely make you a better person. If someone is making an effort to stay by your side, appreciate them with all your heart, after all, you are born to love and to be loved.
Love Is The Best Feeling In The World
Try and be a better version of yourself in terms of love and relationships. Learn from your own mistakes and you will see, how beautifully you are living with your partner. Love can never be painful if we find the real meaning of love, which is unconditionally sticking to each other and accepting the flaws of each other.
It is the people who make a relationship good or bad.
So, if he has been asking you to go on a date with him for last one month, and you have been making silly excuses just because you don’t want to get hurt, then this is the right time to say yes. And remember one thing, love can happen twice.